CarnalNation

The first place to start is (perhaps with a bit more Buddhist philosophy than usual) to sit with this and really accept it. Not just accepting it enough to write to the Perv Panel about what to do, but to accept that this is what's happening to you, to your body, to your desires, and to your drive—right now. It probably won't stay that way forever. You don't have to force it; you don't have to “fight it out for a mediocre orgasm;” and you don't have to freak out about this change.

Usually, these things don't just happen for no reason whatsoever, but it's rather difficult to figure out the source since whatever is going with on your desire and sexuality is often interconnected with all sorts of other changes in your life. It's unlikely the source is singluar. There are some things to consider and questions to ask yourself in trying coming up with some possible reasons for what's behind the "problem." Are you taking any new medications or vitamin supplements? Medications can have all sorts of effects on the body's hormone levels, especially anti-depressants and some forms of birth control. Have your eating habits changed significantly now that you live abroad? Are you more or less stressed, more or less rested? Ask yourself what other aspects of your life have changed and if these changes could be contributing to the change in your libido.

You might also want to consider that your body may be telling you something about your relationship. I know that's probably a hard thing to hear, but I'm throwing that out there for you to ponder. Maybe you need to be in a different relationship—or even on your own for a while—to figure out how your desires have changed and why.

In the meantime, accept what your body is telling you now, today, and don't force yourself to have a desire that isn't there. Be honest with yourself, give yourself a break, and accept that this is probably temporary. You'll be back to your sexy, desirous self in no time.