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Put a Ring on It: Man-Gagement Rings

According to ABC News more men are donning rings as an indication that they are off the market. Though women have traditionally worn flashy diamond engagement bands as a symbol of their upcoming nuptials, man-gagement rings are relatively rare in North America. This growing trend reflects a more common European tradition in which both men and women exchange gold bands upon their engagement. 

While the new male bands may be seen as a marketing ploy to encourage you to part with more of your hard-earned cash, Brad Gross of H.L. Gross & Bro. Jewelers suggests that man-gagement rings are more about levelling the playing field. "If you think about it, a woman is engaged and wears an engagement ring on her finger, oftentimes (for) north of a year,” argues Gross. “And a guy's engaged during that same time and walks into a bar as a free man ... so I think for $350, $400 for a woman to claim her territory, it's catching on pretty quickly." 

Gross admits that most men who shop for engagement bands in his Garden City-based store are accompanied by their future wives. In fact, he suggests that many of them are “dragged in.”  While it may seem fair that both men and women wear rings as a symbol of their non-single status, critics suggest that bands are merely material markers of possession. Regardless of your views on marriage and ownership, as celebrities like Jennifer Hudson embrace the trend, we can expect the price tag and number of man-bands to continue to grow even in a lagging economy.

 

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What is with this trend to

What is with this trend to add some variation of "man" to something traditionally considered feminine? I can think of several examples off the top of my head: man-bag (for a guy's purse or handbag), man-gina and man-boobs (not deserving of any explanation, let alone regard), manscaping, and now this one.

I know!

It's annoying. THe whole man-bag thing drives me up the wall. It's a side bag? On my mothers side both men and women have traded engagement rings. I do think it's a European custom (Polish in this case) They are engagment bands, to usher the couple into a time of preperation for marriage. Many cultures consider it tradition for the pair to exchange these and I'm glad it's catching on in the USA but i think it might be for thewrong reasons. If that makes sense.

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Jessica O'Reilly
November 14th, 2009
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Jessica O'Reilly is a Toronto-based sexologist and PhD researcher in sexual health education. She is passionate about human rights, sex-positive education and social justice issues and works as a consultant with private clients, corporations and public health agencies. Check out her work and blog at www.jessicaoreilly.com.