Your Sex Magic Reading for October 2009

Due to Ida Lovelace’s recent nuptials and the aftermath of Folsom Street Fair, this month’s column will focus on only one card, instead of the regular three. Sometimes we just have to believe that less is more. Fall has once again descended upon us, bringing with it a chance for us to find balance in our lives. Dark and light for a short time are even, giving us a chance to look at both sides of what we do without being critical of ourselves. Take the time to appreciate seeing things from another perspective. Who knows, maybe it is time to turn over a new leaf or just to turn over and take it.

Sex Magic is being conscious of what you and your partner(s) want and making it happen. It's about letting go of your stigmas and pretenses and getting real. Each month, I will draw three cards for each sign. We will look at the month with the Overall Card. Each month has its own tone, and this card sets it. Next is the Challenge Card. Here we look at what pushes your buttons. Sometimes the challenges propel us forward, or they keep us from really seeing what we need to focus on. The final card is your Homework: what you should be working on this month to enhance your sex life.

Aries

Aries: March 21- April 19 for October 2009

Page of Paddles

Think back to the time when you were a child and everything you experienced was new and exciting. There was an innocent awe that came from discovering new things. Those were glorious days, when everything seemed new and fresh. Well, lucky for you, this month is all about that energy. Take the time to really appreciate the small things. Whether your partner gives you a massage or a naughty piece of lingerie, be grateful. Awareness is a powerful sexual tool.

Taurus

Taurus: April 20- May 20 for October 2009

King of Whips

Honesty is a sexy trait, and this month you are the poster child for it. Be real with your partner. If that tongue trick they do is not working for you, let them know in a tactful way. Don’t be harsh. How would you want to be told something? Think about that before opening your mouth. If you are single and looking, this is the month to place a personal ad. Trust me, people will respond.

Gemini

Gemini: May 21- June 20 for October 2009

8 of Paddles

Every Gemini I have ever met is incredibly talented in one way or another. I am sure you are no exception. This month use that talent to its fullest extent. Whether it is your amazing backrub, blow job, or bitching, keep it going all month. People are going to want a repeat performance as much as you are willing to give them. Just be careful not to use the same line on every person you meet. It is a small world we live in, and no one likes to feel like cog in the machine.

Cancer

Cancer: June 21- July 22 for October 2009

Justice

Since October is governed by balance, you couldn’t have gotten a more appropriate card for the month. Take this month to look at the situations you're in. Have you been ignoring your partner or not getting enough action yourself? Be upfront and honest: tell it like it is. This month will also open you up to new things. Be willing to switch roles once in a while. It is really good to know what it feels like to serve someone if you are the one who always gets served.

Leo

Leo: July 23- August 22 for October 2009

3 of Whips

Leos trust with their whole heart, but when they get betrayed, it can get ugly. Relationships might get a little complicated this month: just hold your ground and search for the truth. Sometimes finding out about a twisted situation early in the game makes for quicker healing. On the other hand, if you are the one stepping out, be aware that your secret will surface soon.

Virgo

Virgo: August 23- September 22 for October 2009

The Hanged Man

Do you have a secret desire to be tied up and suspended? This month is your chance to live out that fantasy. Sometimes it is good to explore things from a different perspective. Look in your toy box and think of new uses for the toys you already own. I guarantee that you are going to have a creative month of discovery. You may have so much fun with your new discoveries that you don’t even want to go out. Why should you, when you have everything you need at home?

Libra

Libra: September 23 – October 22 for October 2009

The Sun

Happy Birthday, dear Libra! The stars are finally shining down on you, and this is your month to shine. Seriously, go out there and flaunt what you are all about. Whether it be dressing sexy and hitting the town or running naked through the woods, this is your chance to do what makes you feel good. There is nothing sexier than being able to express yourself, and you get to upstage everyone in that department this month! Have a great time.

Scorpio

Scorpio: October 23 – November 21 for October 2009

Knight of Fantasies

Since Scorpios tend to be such emotional, passionate people, your card of the month is right up your alley. Enjoy your fantasies, and you should consider exploring them in depth. The more you share with the people in your life, the more you realize you are not alone in your feelings. Bring something to the table, and find out who wants to take a nibble out of you. This is your romantic month. You can pretty much charm the pants off of anyone you desire.

Sagittarius

Sagittarius: November 22- December 21 for October 2009

4 of Vibrators

There is nothing like feeling content with how your life is going, and October proves to be a wonderfully secure month for you. All your interactions will prove fulfilling, and even that quick one night stand may lead to something more gratifying than you ever expected. Enjoy that sense of security. Be willing to say what you really feel to those who matter to you. This month, they actually will listen.

Capricorn

Capricorn: December 22- January 19 for October 2009

Lust

There is nothing like a bit of naughtiness to make a month whiz by. This month is filled with all kinds of events where you get to express yourself like you never have before. Wear that smoking-hot dress without anything under it; flirt without fear and get on top. There is nothing that is going to stop you this month. Everyone wants a piece of you.

Aquarius

Aquarius: January 20- February 18 for October 2009

3 of Vibrators

Unlike your Capricorn neighbor who is out there getting all the action, your month will be spent chilling out and waiting for the right moment. You know that good things come to those who wait, and you are willing to wait. Trust your instincts and really sniff someone out before you let them in. Bootie calls will be in abundance next month.

Pisces

Pisces: February 19- March 20 for October 2009

The Chariot

Pony play, anyone? I’m only half joking. October proves to be eye opening for you, my dear Pisceans. This is the month you allow yourself to be free of restriction and follow what you really need. Explore different paths, and put your foot down when you feel like it. Be in control of your life: it is an exhilarating feeling that doesn’t come your way all that often. Tell it like it is, and watch the positive reactions of those around you when you do.

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Sex Magic

by : Ida Lovelace

October 1st, 2009

Ida Lovelace

Ida Lovelace is a professional tarot reader in San Francisco, CA. With over 20 years of experience, she blends humor with insight to help her clients deal with everyday issues. She is available for readings by appointment only. Please contact her at idalovelace@gmail.com for rates and information.