Your Sex Magic Reading for August 2009

The month of August falls between two Pagan Sabbats: Midsummer and Lammas. Our days are filled with lots of sunshine (except in San Francisco), and the nights are short and warm. At least in the Northern Hemisphere, we spend much time in little clothing and find joy in tasting the succulent harvests of the fruit of the earth. People tend to feel better and happier around this time of the year. Take the time to express yourself. Go out and show your true colors. This is the best time of the year to take a walk on the wild side. Fall is descending upon us soon enough, so take advantage of the last of the long days to really enjoy the world around you.

Sex Magic is being conscious of what you and your partner(s) want and making it happen. It's about letting go of your stigmas and pretenses and getting real. Each month, I will draw three cards for each sign. We will look at the month with the Overall Card. Each month has its own tone, and this card sets it. Next is the Challenge Card. Here we look at what pushes your buttons. Sometimes the challenges propel us forward, or they keep us from really seeing what we need to focus on. The final card is your Homework: what you should be working on this month to enhance your sex life.

Aries

Aries: March 21- April 19 for August 2009

Overall: Mistress of Paddles
Challenge: 7 of Paddles
Homework: 4 of Paddles

You always feel best when you are in charge, my fierce friend. Overall this is going to be a very productive month for you. You have mastered what you like and are not afraid to share that information with others. Toys have been bought, and you are working on finding out every possible use for that new stainless steel dildo that arrived in the mail. Be careful not to overanalyze every situation you get into. Not everything has to be perfect every time. Once in a while, you just have to let go and let things happen. Your homework for this month is to learn to be in control without putting walls up. Power comes from being able to say ‘no’ as much as saying ‘yes.’

Taurus

Taurus: April 20- May 20 for August 2009

Overall: Master of Vibrators
Challenge: Ace of Paddles
Homework: 7 of Fantasies

How can you be so sexy and single at the same time? I just don’t get it. You are such a hot commodity this month (OK, every month). For whatever reason you haven’t met the right fuck buddy or your current bed partner is not treating you like the Greek God you are. You are exuding sexual energy so strongly that people across the room can feel it. OK, you stubborn bull-headed hottie, I have some words of wisdom for you: You need to actually go out to meet people. Staying at home and playing Second Life doesn’t count. Share you fantasies with you partner or future partners. They may seem outlandish to you, but how will they ever be fulfilled if you don’t share them?

Gemini

Gemini: May 21- June 20 for August 2009

Overall: The Tower
Challenge: The Sun
Homework: 4 of Vibrators

You’ve had a lot of tough lessons over the past few months and really are looking forward to it all being over. Well, the shit is going to hit the fan in August, and, really, you should be looking forward to it. Sometimes we are forced to deal with all the crap that doesn’t serve us any longer. Here is your chance. Stop being someone else’s slave. It is time for you to be the master of your domain. Own who you are and what you want in life. The most important thing is to be true to your self and feel safe. If the current situation you are in is not what you want, then leave and don’t bother leaving a forwarding number. No one is worth giving up what you believe in.

Cancer

Cancer: June 21- July 22 for August 2009

Overall: Hierophant
Challenge: 9 of Fantasies
Homework: 5 of Whips

The saying “My karma ran over your dogma” came to mind when I pulled your cards for this month. No one likes being told what is socially correct, and you have a huge aversion to people who think they can tell you what’s “right.” I’m sure you have fantasies of telling a Catholic Priest about what you did with your boyfriend in the confessional, and would probably climax while doing so. Overall, this month is about dealing with those cards when they are dealt to you. We all need a structured society, but the challenge is finding the one that suits us best. Burning Man is the perfect example. A society made up of freaks and geeks, sex and spirituality, it melds everyday needs with what makes us tick. Think about that this month. Find what makes you happy. Remember you can always walk away from those who don’t see things the same way as you do.

Leo

Leo: July 23- August 22 for August 2009

Overall: Lovers
Challenge: 4 of Whips
Homework: 10 of Paddles

Who dealt you the best hand from the deck two months in a row? Oh, that would be me. Happy birthday, my dear Leo, it is going to be a spectacular one. You have so many choices and so little time available. Everyone wants a piece of you this month, and you love all the attention. The hardest thing this month is finding time for your self. In between all the hot dates and birthday celebrations, make sure to take a yoga class or two to unwind. If nothing else, try to spend one night alone this month to revitalize yourself physically and mentally. You can be direct and ask for whatever you want this month, and truth being told, you are bound to get it. Let me give you an important bit of advice: be grateful. You will come across even more fabulous if you tell someone they gave you the best head of your life instead of just thinking it.

Virgo

Virgo: August 23- September 22 for August 2009

Overall: 7 of Whips
Challenge: Emperor
Homework: Justice

Sometimes you take life a little too seriously, my dear Virgo. Everything is always organized, and you pride yourself on always being in control of yourself and your life. This month, that stereotype gets a kick in the pants. Suddenly, that perfect organized life gets a pinch of ‘what am I missing out on.’ Think of your sex life as a recipe. If you follow it word for word, you get something you enjoy and know will satisfy you. Seriously though, don’t you get bored of the same thing every night? Try adding some exotic ingredients and spice it up a bit. It doesn’t have to be every night, but once in a while will do wonders for knowing why the grass maybe greener on the other side of the fence. Luckily for you, it won’t take you long to figure out a fabulous new recipe to add to the cookbook.

Libra

Libra: September 23 – October 22 for August 2009

Overall: The Devil
Challenge: 2 of Vibrators
Homework: Page of Paddles

Ah, you naughty Libras are up to your old tricks again. Folsom Street Fair is not for another 2 months yet you find yourself polishing all your fetish gear in anticipation. You feel like pushing boundaries this month, and no time is better than the present to try new things. Just remember what gets your rocks off may not work for your partner. As much as you are dreaming of a road trip to Home Depot to design and build that bondage bed, check in with your partner of choice and make sure you are on the same page. Hot, intense relationships take years to build, so start now and plan for the future. I know you want it all now, but patience my pretty.

Scorpio

Scorpio: October 23 – November 21 for August 2009

Overall: Ace of Fantasies
Challenge: Ace of Whips
Homework: Ace of Vibrators

After last month’s downward spiral, you finally are starting to see the light. All three cards point to new beginnings for you this month, my beloved Scorpio. The dark cloud has dissipated, and the sun is starting to peek through. For the most part, this month is all baby steps. Your magical knight in shining armor is not going to whisk you away to some fabulous party next week, but you at least are thinking about allowing yourself to be whisked away. Expect a lot of quick crushes this month. Everyone will seem like eye candy to you. Focus yourself on really figuring out what would satisfy both your mental and sexual needs since both together make for the happiest person. Don’t rush into a new relationship just to have hot sex. Instead head off to Good Vibes and buy a new best friend who will do exactly what you need when you need it.

Sagittarius

Sagittarius: November 22- December 21 for August 2009

Overall: 6 of Whips
Challenge: 3 of Cups
Homework: The Hermit

It is tough being you, my dear Centaur. There are so many parties to attend and so little time. You are feeling a little burnt out and need some space, but you hate saying no to your friends and lovers who cannot seem to exist without you. You wish you had a personal cruise control button to keep you going when what you really need is some downtime. Pace yourself as much as possible this month. Make sure to get plenty of rest and alone time, and choose your events wisely. Take the time to acknowledge what didn’t work in the past and move forward. The word ‘why’ should be replaced with ‘what if,’ leaving the road open for new opportunities in the coming months. Having some alone time is really beneficial, I promise.

Capricorn

Capricorn: December 22- January 19 for August 2009

Overall: Page of Fantasies
Challenge: 4 of Fantasies
Homework: Page of Vibrators

Most people don’t think ‘playful’ and ‘child-like’ when talking about Capricorns. This month, we are going to prove the rest of the world wrong. Every breathing person fantasizes. Some share their desires freely and willingly, but unfortunately most people store them away in a closet and never explore them. When was the last time you actually vocalized your fantasies? Never? A decade ago? Well, this month you will have the overwhelming urge to share what makes you wet between the legs. Go for it! Challenge yourself by trying new things. Have your boyfriend put on a strap-on thigh harness and get you off while you give him a hand job. Not your cup of tea? How would you know until you try it? Go forth and try new things. It is all about living the dream this month.

Aquarius

Aquarius: January 20- February 18 for August 2009

Overall: Master of Whips
Challenge: Lust
Homework: Judgement

Your brutal honesty messes with you this month, my favorite water bearer. You spend the better part of the month uncovering truths about yourself and others in your life that you may not like. You like to tell it like it is and don’t often think about the repercussions from your instant reactions to a situation until it is too late. If the term ‘buyer’s remorse’ could be applied to your sex life, it would reflect exactly what is going on this month. You are sexually sparked and go for what you desire, but for whatever reason, you feel guilty and judgmental afterwards. Yikes, not pretty. Most people go to a therapist for this exact condition. Luckily, this is a passing condition and you will be back to your old individualistic self next month. My advice: think before you act or re-act. It will save you a lot on a therapist.

Pisces

Pisces: February 19- March 20 for August 2009

Overall: Mistress of Vibrators
Challenge: Temperance
Homework: 6 of Paddles

When people talk about BDSM, the words ‘liberating,’ ‘erotic,’ ‘healing,’ and ‘freeing’ come to mind. These are the deeper feelings that are released for many people. Of course, there are the ‘my panties are wet’ feelings, too. This month is all about expressing those desires. You have earned the right to share your sexuality. You work hard at taking those deep emotions and bringing them to the surface. Share them with others. Throw on some Marvin Gaye. Recognizing that sex is healing for you is a big part of your challenge this month. Is it hard for you to have an orgasm with a partner, but you can get yourself off in seconds? Explore what those fears may be triggered by. Consider taking a class at a local sex-positive shop on how to get what you want. There will be a line of people who would be more than willing to help you come out of your shell.

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love this

by Anonymous on July 30th, 2009 at 10:44pm.

Thanks Ida for writing a fun sex horoscope. I look forward to it every month.

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Sex Magic

by : Ida Lovelace

July 30th, 2009

Ida Lovelace

Ida Lovelace is a professional tarot reader in San Francisco, CA. With over 20 years of experience, she blends humor with insight to help her clients deal with everyday issues. She is available for readings by appointment only. Please contact her at idalovelace@gmail.com for rates and information.