• Friday, December 18, 2009 - 11:46am By Charles Moser and Janet Hardy
    For answers on sex toy cleaning, we turned to our pal Frank Strana, founder/director of Scarlet Letter Services and a premier safer-sex educator. "The easiest way to ensure that your sex toys don't spread viruses is to keep them for yourself only...
  • Friday, December 11, 2009 - 12:46pm By Midori
    Karaoke. Karaoke in fetish wear—eight ex-pat internationals in leather, corsets, latex and evening gowns, crammed in a small imitation Chinese cave, just one of many such rooms stacked along and atop one another, singing loudly, horridly and...
  • Monday, August 24, 2009 - 5:02pm By Chip August
    Dear Kinky Girl, I’ve got to admit that I’m not sure what “working this out” would look like. Do you want to get over feeling squicky? Do you want to set a boundary with your guy? It is OK to choose not to participate in sex play that you don't...
  • Tuesday, July 28, 2009 - 3:21pm By Perv Panel
    I am terrified of getting a sex disease, but I’m kind of confused about how to keep from getting them. People always say to use condoms and they’ll keep you safe, but then I’ve heard they don’t really protect you from herpes and some of the other...
  • Tuesday, July 14, 2009 - 10:18am By Tim McElreavy
    One of the caveats of the condoms-for-safer-sex mantra has been that they are not effective in preventing transmission of genital herpes because the virus may be spread by contact with skin that is not covered by latex. However, according to a new...
  • Saturday, May 30, 2009 - 9:05pm By Tim McElreavy
    In the age of AIDS and other STDs, has oral sex become something more than you can swallow? Or do you no longer want to 'go down' that road anymore? Well, if oral sex has been leaving a bad taste in your mouth, now there's a product that should...
  • Thursday, May 28, 2009 - 3:36pm By Mark Kliem
    The following essay was originally published on Lavender Lounge's blog. --CarnalNation Why are people so interested in contests and competitions? In the past few weeks, mainstream media was obsessed with the finals of American Idol and the...
  • Tuesday, May 26, 2009 - 11:36am By Lani
    Like classical music or abstract art, understanding one's fetish requires some effort, but there are rewards for understanding the medium. The most important tool for this is readily available within you. As one famous professional submissive...
  • Tuesday, May 26, 2009 - 9:58am By Perv Panel
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months now, and early on he revealed his sexual enjoyment of vampires, being a submissive, latex, role play.... The list goes on. I didn't have previous experience with any type of "devious" sex, and...
  • Friday, April 10, 2009 - 6:00am By Charles Moser and Janet Hardy
    I’m the original “two pumps and a squirt” guy. Is there any way I can last longer? Who thinks you’re not lasting long enough: you, or your partner? And another question: we all think we know what a “premature” ejaculation is,  but what the hell is...
  • Sunday, March 29, 2009 - 4:02pm By Tim McElreavy
    Health experts in Canada are asking the government to require warnings on condom packages about how often the condoms break or leak. "There is a huge variation across brands and types of condoms. They report anywhere from 0% failure rate all the way...
  • Friday, March 13, 2009 - 12:00am By Charles Moser and Janet Hardy
    Well, it was right there on your dick a minute ago… The first thing you do is tell your partner(s), and enlist his, her, or their help in finding it. Odds are it just fell off, and if you search through the bedclothes you’ll find it lying there...