• Monday, February 8, 2010 - 8:12am By Matthew Lawrence
    Sometimes, as an underemployed and commitment-phobic gay man, self-esteem issues occasionally spring up.  Luckily, when they do, there's a solution:  Watch the Super Bowl.  Not the part where the men in the gold spandex tights...
  • Monday, December 21, 2009 - 12:49pm By John Pettitt
    YouTube is known for not tolerating NSFW video content; we understand that it would rapidly become just another porn tube site if they didn't enforce the rules.   However, there appears to be a growing tendency to censor all videos that even...
  • Monday, August 24, 2009 - 5:02pm By Chip August
    Dear Kinky Girl, I’ve got to admit that I’m not sure what “working this out” would look like. Do you want to get over feeling squicky? Do you want to set a boundary with your guy? It is OK to choose not to participate in sex play that you don't...
  • Sunday, July 5, 2009 - 3:03pm By Liz Highleyman
    Certainly it's possible to find someone online for a night or for a lifetime — in fact, I met my partner through an e-mail discussion group in the late 1980s, well before the advent of the web! There's really no best answer about where to look,...
  • Monday, June 29, 2009 - 1:25pm By Chip August
    Ooooh! The threesome with your main squeeze. Very hot! Let’s start with the easy part of your question. Before you can negotiate for what you want, you have to have some idea what it is you want. Before you invite a third, I strongly encourage you...
  • Saturday, May 30, 2009 - 5:12pm By John Pettitt
    Who has the most sex scandals? Thinking back to the Clinton administration, you might think it would be the Democrats or maybe the Catholic Church, but you'd be wrong. Using the highly unscientific (but fun) method of who has the most google hits,...
  • Friday, March 27, 2009 - 4:00pm By Carol Queen
    All right, class, it's time for our special lecture on anthro-economics. To begin, just google this phrase: "conservative states use more porn." How many results do you get? Several hundred thousand, a.k.a. “a huge boatload”?...