• Wednesday, October 21, 2009 - 2:22pm By Eve Minax
    Ooooh, I am so turned on by the idea of giving you advice on how to talk dirty that it makes me want to touch myself, mmmmm. Okay, so that was one simple formula of getting you into the verbiage around “talking dirty.” There are many...
  • Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 5:38am By System Administrator
    Part Three in a series of five. See also: Part One, Introduction and Part Two, Yin & Yang. Kristen has been calling me “Daddy” in bed lately. Since earlier this summer, really; I just haven’t written about it yet, because it feels so damn...
  • Tuesday, September 29, 2009 - 10:04am By System Administrator
    You in stockings and a garter, pussy bare, black bra, your lips and eyes darkened. Heels strapped around your ankles that I take off, or maybe not. Black and red silk ropes around your thighs, under your knees, around your ankles, around your wrists...
  • Monday, August 24, 2009 - 3:36pm By Charlie Glickman
    First off, everyone has squicks. They can be there for any reason or no reason at all, and that’s ok. The fact that you’ve discovered one of yours doesn’t mean that you’re not a pervert (and I only ever use that as a...
  • Wednesday, July 8, 2009 - 9:33am By Charlie Glickman
    One of the criticisms that gets leveled at BDSM players is the claim that BDSM is violence and that it reinforces social oppressions such as sexism, racism, homophobia, etc. There’s even a Facebook group called the Sex-Positive Leftists...
  • Sunday, May 17, 2009 - 12:08pm By Thumper
    Gimme a wet one! Thank you for sending in this most wonderful of questions. Over the years and through the Castro streets, I have witnessed a great amount of queer debate given to this sloppy bit of play. Some queens are avid lip smackers, other...
  • Monday, May 11, 2009 - 12:36pm By Tim McElreavy
    It has been said that the brain is the biggest sex organ, and now new research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine suggests that for women having brains leads to more orgasms and a more fulfilling sex life. A team of researchers led by...
  • Monday, May 11, 2009 - 8:51am By Miss Maggie Mayhem
    If a partner's fetish has completely overshadowed your entire sex life or crosses personal boundaries, then it is definitely time to speak up about the problem. If your biggest complaint is that your partner's fetish can be dull after awhile, then...
  • Friday, April 24, 2009 - 10:59pm By John Pettitt
    Sex advice columns are a staple of U.S. papers and magazines.  However, when you look for advice from beyond the the United States, you find that the answer is not always what you'd expect. In the Daily Gleaner (Jamaica), the "...
  • Monday, March 23, 2009 - 9:19am By Miss Maggie Mayhem
    When porn is available everywhere we look, it becomes a little harder to determine when it is being used too often. Sex and porn addictions are topics currently under debate by many psychologists. An unhealthy relationship with porn has similar...
  • Monday, March 23, 2009 - 9:09am By Miss Kitty
    Miss Kitty says: I’m all for toys, props, and stimulants to sex play as long as they enhance your intimate connection. Sounds like you sometimes have the feeling that you’re the accessory to the event and not the main attraction–...
  • Wednesday, March 18, 2009 - 8:00am By Eve Minax
    As a long-time lifestyle and professional Dominatrix, I have been told over the years by extreme kink specialists like Madame Cleo Dubois and Fakir Musafar, father of the Modern Primitives movement, that I am “the kinkiest woman [they] know,...
  • Friday, March 13, 2009 - 9:22am By Sasquatch
    First, let me just say YOWIEEE! Now that I've let that out, I can get on with being helpful.  That area is one of those places that you just don't think about until it doesn't work without pain anymore.  I've heard the colon compared with...